Decode Her Flow for Men 

Understand feminine energy. Deepen the Connection.
Transform your relationship with women.
Period.

>> Next cohort: January 20, 2026 <<

A practical guide for men who want to lead their relationships with women with more maturity, clarity, and relational leadership.

Who: Men
Ages: 21+
Level: Foundational 
Modality: Self-paced or Cohort
Duration: 6-week cohort or self-paced
Format: Online
Materials: Video, PDF, Exercises 

The most undeniable difference between men & women are hormones. 

Don't Be The Guy Who Doesn't Get Women.

Most men are lost in translation. 85% of couples say cycle-related conflict leads to emotional disconnection.

Ever felt like your partner changed overnight, and you had no idea why? Do your best efforts sometimes land the wrong way?

You’re not alone. Most men were never taught about the menstrual cycle.
Beyond vague high-school facts or cultural taboos.

But this lack of understanding leads to avoidable conflict, emotional distance, and even breakdown of trust.

It’s not because you’re not trying.
It’s because you’ve been missing a key piece of the map.

You can be the guy knows the secret codes. 

Her feminine cycle is not a flaw.
It is your map.

Be the Man Who Gets It, Who Gets Her.

This course gives you a clear, practical understanding of masculine-feminine energy as well as the phases of her biological cycle and what’s happening emotionally, and energetically, so you can show up with more clarity, confidence, and care.

This course was designed for men by educators, coaches, men, and women who want better relationships, too. We take you through:
  • Relational Intelligence basics: Vocabulary, dynamics, and practices to level up as man
  • Anatomy of the female reproductive area and hormones 101
  • The four phases of the cycle and what’s happening in each
  • How common fights, shutdowns, or disconnection moments are often tied to core cycle triggers
  • Core wounds that get activated in each phase, from her and your side
  • Real stories and examples to help you “get it” quickly
  • Tools and strategies to communicate better, support her better, and understand yourself more deeply in the process
  • How to cycle sync your work and relationships
This isn’t about fixing her. It’s about understanding the rhythm that runs under the surface and knowing how to dance with it.

Turn confusion into confident action.

Master the four-phase map so you both feel seen, safe, and fully alive.

This for you if:

  • You want to be a better man, a better lover, partner, and leader in life and relationships. 
  • You're afraid to say or do the wrong thing, especially when your partner is emotional or distant
  • You try to show up, but it feels like you can't get it right or never do enough.
  • You take things personally and often feel frustrated, shut down, or confused in your relationships 
  • You crave more peace, clarity, and connection in how you show up; with women, and with yourself.
Samantha's ideas of gender dynamics and the feminine are world class. I know she’s taught in the Middle East and in Latin America where I met her in person. The world needs this. I need her to help me unravel the mysteries we were never taught growing up.

She is truly a scholar and a gem. I prioritize seeing her and being a part of anything she creates. Thank you for helping men understand these critical things we were never taught.

Basim

I mean, this is like a little bit of a hack. As a man, I personally love taking care of my partner. Like showing that I am aware of where she is and acts of love and service according to her current state. I was like really appreciative, and I also like got so much love in return.

It helped me be more in tune with her emotions, and not take things personally when like certain things happen. It's really helpful.

Stefano

What to Expect and What this is Not

--> This is not a 'relationship' course, this is a men's course. You do not have to be in a relationship.  We discuss relationship dynamics, strategies, and vocabulary to build trust, intimacy, and safety, but the focus is on understanding the feminine and your own challenges in relationships with women.

--> The content applies to women who are not on hormonal birth control. Artificial hormones suppress the natural biology we explore. If a woman in your life is planning to get off birth control or is not on it, this course is perfect. 

--> This is a map. Each woman is her own territory. Each woman lives this differently and it's up to you to discover that. This is meant to deepen communication, not replace it.

--> This isnot about polarity and does not reinforce gender stereotypes. This a multi-disciplinary course based on biology, psychology, anatomy, self-awareness and emotional intelligence - and is a space of reflection and dialogue to co-create a new paradigm of reading. 

This is about increased responsibility, communication, and empathy within relationships between men and women.

Level Up your Relationships

When it comes to relationships, most men are navigating blind.

We were never taught how women work emotionally, biologically, or energetically. And often, it can feel like men and women live on different planets. We just haven't been taught the feminine maps, because there has been shame, judgement, and taboos around it. Until now. 

We are far more similar than we are different. And yet, without understanding our differences, we stay stuck in confusion and conflict, lost in translation.

What seems small; a shift in mood, a misread text, a tone of voice, can easily spiral into distance, mistrust, and disconnection.

We know this terrain can feel confusing or even triggering. That’s why we’ve created a zero-shame, zero-judgment environment where all parts of your experience as a man are welcome.

This course will give you a map to the feminine.

New Paradigm of Showing up as a Man

To understand the deeper rhythm that women move through; not in a 24-hour cycle like men, but a 28–35 day cycle that affects energy, needs, emotional availability, and libido.

  • A clear understanding of how a woman’s monthly hormonal cycle works and basic anatomy (and how it impacts everything from energy to emotion to connection)
  • Use the relationship for your own growth and personal development as a man
  • Common moments of emotional misunderstanding and what’s actually going on under the surface
  • Tools to meet a woman with presence, instead of confusion, withdrawal, or frustration
  • Tips to foster trust, intimacy, and teamwork, even when emotions run high
  • Insights into what women might need in each phase

    A total game-changer in your relationships.

Access the game-changing codes few men have access to. 

Look at What's Inside & Meet you Guides

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This is What our Participants Say

It's crazy to think men don't have this information. It is a total game-changer. It has totally changed the way I show up with my woman. Thank you.
Tommy
This course didn’t just help me understand her, it helped me understand myself. I show up differently now. I feel more grounded, more powerful, and way more connected.
Peter
Women have hinted that this is a thing in their lives... That it's important and affects them but I had no idea how. When I have a cold, I say I have a cold, but women don't say when they're on their bleed. I get it all so much more after this course. 
Julien

The perfect moment to level up your masculine toolkit. 

>> Next cohort: January 20, 2026 <<

Your Guides for this Course

Antonio Melendez

Antonio Melendez is a a purpose-led artist and men's coach.  His photography, films, music and coaching connects us to our deeper humanity and to the sacredness of the Earth. He is committed to the harmony between the feminine and masculine helps men play their essential part in that.

Samantha Sacchi Muci

Samantha is a life and business strategist, coach and educator specialized in leadership emotional intelligence, and spiritual alignment. She helps human beings, especially women, integrate, find greater peace and confidence within themselves. She's devoted to the integration of masculine-feminine harmony on Earth. 

Course Guests & Academy Allies

Simonette Padron

Obstetrician and Gynecologist

Lisa Weinhold

Sensual Yoga & Somatic Embodiment Teacher

Avery Leigh

Functional Diagnostic Nutrition Practitioner

Jagriti Bhatia

Leadership, Human Behavior & Women's Expert

What You'll Walk Away With

A new understanding and mindset to navigate your relationship with women and yourself. 

Insider's Map of Feminine Cycles & How it Affects Her (+ you)

You'll understand the map no one taught you. The biological and emotional of each phase of the cycle along with what it means for you.

Know-how to Lead Relationships with Confidence & Clarity

This is a mindset shift. It is about being anchored in your masculine energy by understanding and connecting to the feminine. 

Tools for your own Self-leadership & Growth as a Man

The Power Within starts with you taking back your power and leading yourself. Self-awareness, shadow work, and self-reflection at the core of this program.

Ready to level up your Relational Leadership?

Self-paced is more flexible. Live cohort offers accountability, support, and community. 

If you need further payment support or would like a partial scholarship, please contact us.

Do it on your own and at your pace for maximum flexibility

Self-paced - $475

At your own pace:
  • 4+ hours of powerful, top-notch recorded classes
  • 1 Course Book in PDF format
  • Practical coursework (journaling, self-reflection)
  • Printable high-quality PDF resources 
  • Access to our beautiful community 
  • Access to live classroom once per month
  • Replay access for 2 years

With a group for max accountability & support

Group - $770

On January 20, 2026
  • 4 LIVE group calls with teachers (**see dates below in FAQs)
  • Live community chat and real-time support
  • 4+ hours of powerful, top-notch recorded classes
  • 1 Course Book in PDF format
  • Practical coursework (journaling, self-reflection)
  • Printable high-quality PDF resources 
  • Access to our beautiful community 
  • Access to live classroom once per month
  • Replay access for 2 years

With 1-to-1 sessions to work for personalized support

Custom: $1,890

Personalized Program:
  • 4 one-to-one sessions with TSA coach or therapist
  • 3 LIVE group calls with teachers
  • Personalized real-time support and community chat and
  • 1 Course Book in PDF format
  • Practical coursework (journaling, self-reflection)
  • Printable high-quality PDF resources 
  • Access to our beautiful community 
  • Access to live classroom once per month
  • Replay access for 2 years
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The ROI: Fewer arguments, clearer signals, deeper intimacy.

Couples Bundles Available 

Course Overview 

Frequently asked questions

How much time will this take (*times and dates for cohort here)?

If you complete the self-paced course, it depends on your own rhythm. You can watch all the contents in a days or months OR even sync with a loved one in your life who is menstruating and start the course a few days before her menstruation arrives so the course is synced with her.

If you join our cohort - we will complete the course in 6 weeks. Here are the dates and course times:

Course unlocks: Sunday, January 20, 2026
Full schedule will be announced in December 2025.

Do I have to be in a relationship to do this course?

No. Whether you’re single, dating, in a long-term relationship, or married, this course will deepen your understanding of women, and of yourself. This is about cyclical awareness and emotional intelligence, not relationship status.

What exactly will I learn?

You’ll learn how the female menstrual cycle impacts energy, mood, communication, and intimacy, and how to navigate each phase with confidence. You’ll also explore the common emotional triggers men experience in relationships and how to meet them with self-awareness instead of reactivity.

Is this course only for men?

Yes, this course is specifically designed for men who want to understand women and their relationships with women better. There is another course for women to understand and connect with their own cycle.

Is this about pleasing her?

No. This isn’t about people pleasing, walking on eggshells or trying to constantly make her happy. It’s about learning the emotional patterns and cyclical flows of the feminine so you can navigate the relationship with power, instead of confusion.

When a woman feels seen and understood, she relaxes. And when she relaxes, you relax. Tension drops. Conflict reduces. Trust grows.

The result? Less miscommunication. Less guesswork. And a lot more connection, passion, and peace.

This is about upgrading the relationship for both of you. More peace, more depth, more intimacy. Not because you’re bending yourself out of shape, but because you’re showing up in your full strength.

Do I need to have done inner work or therapy before this?

Whether you’ve done ten years of therapy or none at all, you’ll get something from this.

This course isn’t about how “developed” you are. It’s about understanding women better, leading from emotional intelligence, and building stronger, more connected relationships.

We cover real stuff no one teaches men: the basics of emotional communication, masculine presence, and how a woman’s cycle actually works. You’ll leave with a map and practical tools that work, no matter your starting point.
It helps you become a better man, not only in your relationship, but in general...

Like how you show up in the world because you have a higher understanding of how half of the population works and you show up with more empathy and curiosity. 

Steven

This really helped me demystify the world of women’s energy that was so foreign and weird to me in the beginning.

It explained things to me in a way no one else ever has. In a way that is not condescending to men. 

Rob

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Transformation isn’t accidental, it’s designed. Here’s how we make it real.

Multi-disciplinary Depth

Our science-meets-wisdom approach provides multiple perspectives, teachers, and knowledge so that you can uncover your own truth.

Community-Driven Learning

You were never meant to do this alone. We need each other! Community provides accountability, support, and shared meaning.

Practical Embodiment

Our experiential learning approach is designed to be instantly applicable and relevant to our life today. We turn wisdom into action.

Self-paced or Cohort-based

You can do it at your own rhythm, or join a cohort for maximum accountability,  support, and depth. We got you, and you got this.

Join a community of men and women re-writing the rules of relating. 

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